5 Reasons Why God Uses Problems

November 2nd, 2009 by misssabiha
The problems you face will either defeat you or develop you - depending on how you respond to them. Unfortunately, most people fail to see how God wants to use problems for good in their lives. They react foolishly and resent their problems rather than pausing to consider what benefit they might bring.
Here are five ways God wants to use the problems in your life:
1. God uses problems to DIRECT you.
Sometimes God must light a fire under you to get you moving. Problems often point us in a new direction and motivate us to change. Is God trying to get your attention? Sometimes it takes a painful situation to make us change our ways.
2. God uses problems to INSPECT you.
People are like tea bags…if you want to know what’s inside them, just drop them into hot ever water! Has God tested your faith with a problem? What do problems reveal about you? When you have many kinds of troubles, you should be full of joy, because you know that these troubles test your faith, and this will give you patience.
3. God uses problems to CORRECT you.
Some lessons we learn only through pain and failure. It’s likely that as a child your parents told you not to touch a hot stove. But you probably learned by being burned. Sometimes we only learn the value of something… health, money, a relationship,. . .by losing it. “It was the best thing that could have happened to me, for it taught me to pay attention to your laws.”
4. God uses problems to PROTECT you.
A problem can be a blessing in disguise if it prevents you from being harmed by something more serious. Last year a friend was fired for refusing to do something unethical that his boss had asked him to do. His unemployment was a problem - but it saved him from being convicted and sent to prison a year later when management’s actions were eventually discovered. “You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good.”
5. God uses problems to PERFECT you.
Problems, when responded to correctly, are character builders. God is far more interested in your character than your comfort. Your relationship with God and your character are the only two things you’re going to take with you into eternity. We can rejoice when we run into problems… they help us learn to be patient. And patience develops strength of character in us and helps us trust God more each time we use it until finally our hope and faith are strong and steady.
Here’s the point:
God is at work in your life - even when you do not recognize it or understand it. But it’s much easier and profitable when you cooperate with Him. Success can be measured not only in achievements, but in lessons learned, lives touched and moments shared along the way.
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The “It’s as” and the “It’s not(s)” - I LOVE YOU!

October 15th, 2009 by misssabiha

I love you.

It’s not a weight you must carry around.

I love you.

It’s not a box that holds you in.

I love you.

It’s not a standard you have to bear.

I love you.

It’s not a sacrifice I make.

I love you.

It’s not a pedestal you are frozen upon.

I love you.

It’s not an expectation of perfection.

I love you.

It’s not my life’s whole purpose (or your’s).

I love you.

It’s not to make you change.

I love you.

It’s not even to make you love me.

I love you.

It’s as pure and simple as that.

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Love and Life

September 17th, 2009 by misssabiha

It hurts to love and not to be loved in return, but what is more painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let that person know how you feel.Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the right person, we will know how to be grateful for that gift.Love is when you take away the feeling; the passion and the romance in a relationship and find out you still care for that person.A sad thing about life is you meet someone who means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and you just have to let it go.When the door of happiness closes, another one opens.But oftentimes we took so long at the closed that we don’t see the one which has been opened for us.The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on the porch and swing it, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was best conversation you have ever had.It is true that we don’t know what we got until we lose it, but it is also true that we don’t know what we have been missing until it arrives.Giving all your love is never an assurance that they will love you back.Do not expect love in return; just wait for it to grow in their hearts, but if it doesn’t be content it grew in yours.There are things you would love to hear that you would never hear from the person whom you would like to hear it from, but do not be so deaf as not to hear it from the one who says it from his heart.Never say goodbye if you still want to try, never give up if you still feel it can go on, never say you do not love a person anymore if you cannot let go.Love comes to go who still hope although they have been disappointed, to those who believe, although they have been betrayed, to those who still need to love, although, they have been hurt before, and to those who have the courage and faith to build trust again.

It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.Do not go for looks, it can deceive.Do not go for wealth, even that fades away.Go for someone who makes you smile.Because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seems bright.Hope you find the one who makes you smile.There are moments in life when you miss someone so much that you just want to pick him from your dream and hug him for real.Hope you dream of that special someone.Dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be what you want to be; because you have one life and one chance to do all the things you wants to do.May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make strong, enough sorrow to keep you human, enough hope to make you happy, and enough money to buy me a gift.Always put yourself in other’s shoes.If it feels that it hurts you, it probably hurts that person too.A careless word may kindle strife; a cruel word may wreck a life; a loving word may heal and bless.The beginning of love is to let those who we love be just themselves, and not twist them with our own image otherwise, we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them.The happiest people don’t necessarily have the best of everything; they just have to make the most of everything that comes along in their way.Happiness lies for those who cry, those who hurt, those who will search, and those who have tried, for only they can appreciate the importance of people who have touched their lives.Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss and ends with a tear.The brightest future will always be based on forgotten past, you can go on well in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.When you are born, you were crying and everyone was smiling.Live your life so that when you die, you are the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying.

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The Letter To The One That God Has Prepared For Me!

August 14th, 2009 by misssabiha

I am wondering at this very moment if you are thinking of me. If you like me, maybe you are wondering what is taking us so long to find each other. Many times I thought I finally found you only to be disillusioned by the fact that my wait has not yet ended. I get up each morning hoping, dreaming, longing to meet you.

I am thinking of how we will meet. Would it be as romantic as the ones I have seen in the movies? or is it possible that I have known you all my life but we have yet to realize that we are meant for each othe? Oh how I wish you were here right now because you are the only one who has the answers to all my questions.

Sometimes I ask myself if I have ever really known “LOVE”. I do not have the answer to that question either but I believe, that more often than not, we will never really know what love is until we find the right person… And since I have not found you yet, then maybe I do not really know what love is.

You  just don’t know how often I dream of finally knowing what it feels like to be in you arms. Even at this very moment I am imagining how you will simply sweep me off my feet! Perhaps I would be drawn to you by your smile or your eyes or maybe even how you manage to make me laugh by your silly little ways.

I don’t really know for sure but I am praying that God will help me recognize you when the right time comes. I think of all the pain that I have gone through in the past and of how much I have cried since the day I began my search. I just wanted you to know that I find my strength in changing unto my vision of the beautiful life ahead of me. The life I shall spend with you. In my mind and in my heart, I know that you are worth all that pain and sacrifice. After all, the tears have become apart of my life and I believe that they are slowly washing away my flaws so that I would become Perfect For You! I wonder if you’ve gone through so much pain as well. I wonder if you’ve been hurt many times along the journey.

But My Dearest One, please don’t ever give up because I am right here… Patiently waiting for you. I assure you that when we finally find each other, I would slowly heal those wounds by My Love.

At night, I would look out my window and stare at the beautiful sky, hoping that somehow you are also looking up wondering about me. I utter a silent prayer and send all my cries to the heavens above thinking that in time they would reach you. And when I feel impatient, I just close my eyes and believe that you are on your way and that you are longing to see me as well. It is funny but when I finally fall asleep, it is still you that I think of, for you are always in my dreams. It seems that for now, that is the only place where I can hold on you. Longing enough to tell you how much I Love You. In my dreams you would kiss away my fears and wrap me with you arms of Love. And this, all the more makes me want to wake up and face the new day ahead with the hope that soon enough, you will no longer be a dream. But a reality and once again, I am assured that you are worth the wait. And when that time comes, everything will fall into its place. Just as I imagined, just as I have believed it would be. By then, I would simply look back and smile at all that I have gone through. In spite of the pain and amidst the simple joys of life. And I would be very thankful because they all lead me to you.

In the meantime, take care of yourself for me. hold on to our dream and don’t even think of letting go. Believe in you heart that we will find each other no matter what happens. God has planned the course and it is up to us to follow the directions. Don’t worry, don’t be afraid about getting lost. God saw to it that all roads, no matter which one you choose to follow, lead me to you.

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Pasubali

June 16th, 2009 by misssabiha

Kung pwede lang Wag mo na ‘tong iwasan. At ‘wag mo ring Ituring na biro. Marahil ‘to’y ‘di mo inaasahan Pero sana’y ‘Wag ipinid ang pinto. Itikom ang bibig Mata’y ibaling sa’kin Pakinggan mo ang sasabihin ko…
Kailan mo ba matutunan? Kailan mo ba ‘pagsisigawang? ‘Di mo na ‘pagkakailang tayo?  Kay rami nang pinagdaanan, Ano pa ba ang ‘yong kailangan?  Nagsusumamo na sabihin mo.

Ang diwa ko’y Tigib sa kaiisip. Sa sarili’y laging May kinikimkim. Patuloy lamang bang mananaginip?  At mananatili lang na nakapikit?

Ako’y mayro’ng batid. Ito’y iyong pag-amin. Hindi na natin maiiwasan ‘to…

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My Personal Angel

June 5th, 2009 by misssabiha

I won’t blame you for bluffing on me. Angel should cover up their wings in the mortal world. Humans are slow to think and harsh. Whereas you are kind-hearted. How can I let you get hurt just because of me? The small palm, the thickness of warmth. You always calm the easiness of my heart at night. The dream that I ran away from, when I look into your eyes. I saw that my dream is just in front.

No one can take you away from my side. You’re my personal angel that belongs only to me. No one can replace you in my heart. Having a personal angel… What kind of other wishes can I have? A small small palm yet with a big strength. I will soar just like you. Where you wanna go, is where I’ll go to. Having you protection, guidance and love… My smiles are as bright as the sun. If it wasn’t you that appear, I would have been still asleep. I thought that life revolves only around the right. Until you came……..

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awwwwwww!

May 28th, 2009 by misssabiha

Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn’t it? It makes you vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all the defenses, you build up all suit of armor, so that nothing can hurt you. Then one stupid person. No different person from any other person wonders into your stupid life. You give hima piece of you, he didn’t ask for it. He did something dumb one day, like a kiss or smile at you then the life isn’t it your own anymore.

Love takes hostages. It gets inside of you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness so simple like a phrase like “maybe we should be just friends” turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It’s a soul-hurt, a REAL-GETS-INSIDE-YOU-AND-RIPS-YOU-APART PAIN!

-Miss Sabiha-

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Churva!

May 28th, 2009 by misssabiha

Welcome to Friendster Blogs. This is your first post. Edit or delete it, then start blogging!

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